My aunty is forcing me to go and live with a man I neither know or love

Hello Dr. Mama Zimbi, my name is Lovelace and i am staying with my aunty in Koforidua. I am 20yrs old and I finished SHS 3yrs ago with good grades. My aunty says she does not have money to help me go to Poly and that I should look for a man and I said no. Right now I do and sell meat pie but it is not enough. A week ago she told me to pack my things and go to the village if I am not ready to accept any man to help me further my education. I thought she wasn’t serious but yesterday she came in with a man tellin me to go nd stay with him since i dnt ve any boyfriend and he will take me to school. But i dnt luv him nd am not interested too. i dnt knw what to do pls help me.

Can I marry a guy whose manhood is small without any issue?

Hello Dr. Mama Zimbi, Am Maame Ama, 28yrs old and working. I av met dis guy, a young politician with a bright future who wants to marry me this year n in attitude wise, am cool wid him. But his manhood is too small. Am a bit concernd abt dat. Pls i want to knw weda the size of the thing counts in marriage. I want u to be as realistic as possible befor I make mistakes. Thank u.

Could I be pregnant?

Hello Dr. Mama Zimbi, my name is Aba and I am 17yrs old. pls help me am in SHS two bt mama my problem is last three days i had an unprotected sex with my guy nd after dat i took dis emergency pills nd frm dat day am hvin some abdominal pains nd i dnt noe if i will be pregnant or not. if i will be pregnant pls help me with any drug so i dnt wnt to be pregnant.

I am 18yrs old and the 50yrs old man is demanding for sex before he helps me

Hello Dr. Mama Zimbi, I’m Florence and 18yrs of age. I completed shs last yrs n will be going to de nursing college very soon. There’s dis man who will be about 50yrs old dat promise to take care of me, so we re going out now, buh mama my problem now is he has been woryn me to hv sex with me n i don’t want to do it, yesternight he called me to come to his place n i didn’t because of that dat he watsapp me just now telling if i don’t come to his place now den i should forget abt de help he wants to offer me. But mama i really need his help cause my dad is dead n also my mum is de only 1 taking care of my 3 siblings, I’m so comfuse n don’t noe wat should do now so pls advise me thanks.

Mama Zimbi crowned Queen of Radio

The multiple international award-winner and cultural icon, Akumaa Mama Zimbi, known in private life as Dr Joyce Akumaa Dongotey-Padi, has once again been crowned as the Queen of Radio Talk Shows in Ghana. This confirmation came when she was adjudged as the Best Female Radio Celebrity of the year at the GN Bank Awards (Peoples Choice Award – 2015).

Akumaa Mama Zimbi, who is a Ghanaian women’s rights leader, television and radio talk show host, actress, philanthropist, sex educator, relationship expert and marriage counsellor, is also the host of Ghana’s number one and most consistent radio and television talk show on marriage, love and sex called ‘Odo Ahomaso’ on Adom 106.3 FM and Multi TV. She has hosted this show for 15years now.

She is also the Founder and Executive Director of Mama Zimbi Foundation (MZF), a non-governmental organisation which seeks to empower and support widows through its Widows Alliance Network (WANE) project, and also involve in the issues of adolescents. Through WANE, over 400 widow groupings have been formed in Ghana with membership swelling to over 8,000 nationwide.

Source: Daily Guide


I am an usher at Church and I cannot stand the shame of pregnancy

Hello Dr. Mama Zimbi, i am Afua 26yrs old. Mama i dated my boyfriend for almost 7yrs now and i can even swear that i never cheated on him, we use to have unprotected sex regularly but at times we do protect ourselves. last month 2days after my menses we started having unprotected sex throughout the month, we had it more than 6times in last month but he removed only once. My menses is supposed to come yesterday but it didnt come. i told him this morning and he said he is not the one if I am pregnant. Mama help me on what to do because I am an usher at Church and I cannot stand the shame! Why are guys so wicked? Pls hep me, Mama.

I have a low self esteem due to my size

Hello Dr Mama Zimbi, my name is Hannah. I am 21yr and a girl. My problem is that,i have a low self esteem due to my size. I am stick-thin and I feel deserted. I just want to put on weight but I am finding it difficult to do so. i have tried so many weight gain enhancement products,exercising and a whole lot. If only I can put on a little more pounds,i will feel comfortable in my own skin. Hope you can help me cos I look malnourished and sometimes I think am anorexic. Mama, any medicine suggestions?