I broke up with him about an hour ago

Hello Dr. Mama Zimbi, ,am Selina,20 and he is kwame 22ys. we hve been dating for 2yrs now and i hve never cheated on him before,he is jobless and i never complained or ask him anything but mama,this guy is extremly jealous,he has sacked both my male and female friends from him,i even had a huge fight with my family when they disagreed on our relationship,he nags too much, he doesnt trust me, he is my first guy and i really love him. I broke up with him about an hour ago through whatsapp cuz i cant stand him anymore. but he is begging. am i doing the right thing mum, Plz advice.

Hello Dr. Mama Zimbi, ,am Selina,20 and he is kwame 22ys. we hve been dating for 2yrs now and i hve never cheated on him before,he is jobless and i never complained or ask him anything but mama,this guy is extremly jealous,he has sacked both my male and female friends from him,i even had a huge fight with my family when they disagreed on our relationship,he nags too much, he doesnt trust me, he is my first guy and i really love him. I broke up with him about an hour through whatsapp cuz i cant stand him anymore. but he is begging. am i doing the right thing mum, Plz advice.

I have slept with my lecturer and she is threatening me

Hello Dr. Mama Zimbi, am Anthony, level 300 in one of the private institution, I have been flirting with one of our young female lecturers for about 1 year now, jux last week she invited me to her place and I flirted with her again and this time around it ended in a foreplay and eventually we had sex. After we had sex, things have really changed whenever I come to her class late she sacks me, she marks me down every quiz we take. So I confronted her yesterday asking why she is doing that she said “it was silly she had sex with me” so she gonna make sure I either graduate with a third class or never graduate at all because thats what I gain from sleeping with a lecturer. Mama, is she joking or serious what what she is telling me. Mama am confuse now don’t know what do plz help me?

Should I break his heart?

Hello Dr. Mama Zimbi am Awuraba, 24years, i started a relationship last December when i was recovering from a heart break,, initially i didnt love him but he showed me care n had time for me so i decided to accept him,,, i can boldly say the guy truly loves me but he is over jealous n is making me uncomfortable in de relationship,,, If am online on watsap without chatting him,, then he will be sending me messages thanking me for chatting my previous guy,, when he calls to ask me what am doing n i tell him nothing then he concludes am thinking abt ma ex,, if not i shd either come to his shop or sit in front of my house..Am a service person in dat town so after work i ve no where to go than my room.

I told him i dont want to be at his shop always bcos i feel shy wen i meet his friends arnd n he said bcos i want to be alone n talk to ma ex das why i dont want to be closer to him. Yesterday he wanted to read my chats n i told him no cos am de one he is dating and not my fon n he got angry n pushed me down dat am still with my ex das why i dont want him to touch my fon. So i told him since he doesnt trust me i cant keep a relationship with him bcos after service i will leave to my house n distance relationship is based on trust. And now he is begging me but am not comfortable with his behaviour, am i right in quitting?? Thanks