It is important to note that mistakes men usually make in bed also cause sexual dysfunction in women. You’ve got her as far as your bedroom. What could possibly go wrong now? Many things – read these and find out why she never phoned or returned your calls.
1. Playing with her nipples. Nipples are sensitive and should be treated gently. They should not be treated like radio dials.
2. Ignoring the rest of her body. A woman is made up of more than two breasts and a vagina. Pay attention to the rest of her.
3. Not kissing first. Foreplay starts with passionate kissing. Don’t skip this part – she will feel neglected by your apparent haste.
4. Attacking the clitoris. Be gentle and don’t use direct pressure. This could be both uncomfortable and painful.
5. Taking your pants off first. There are few things less attractive than a man in only socks, a shirt and underpants.
6. Going too fast. Remember this is not an Olympic event. There is no need for you to pump away like a hydraulic power tool. Build up slowly – and you both might have more fun.
7. Nudging her head down. All women hate this. There is an element of desperation involved here when men do this. For women, it’s a very short step from being dragged to a cave by the hair. If both of you enjoy oral sex, this will happen by itself. Don’t involve an element of force.
8. Taking pictures. Her first thought will be “Who do you want to show them to?”
9. Thank a woman for having sex with you. It makes her feel secure and wanted. She will be back for more.
im guilty on da nipples….lol
This is very true. A lot of husbands don’t treat their women as they should. LOVE MAKING (MAKING LOVE) and SEX are two different words with different meanings. Akumaa, Medaase!!
I think all the statements made are true and men who want to secure their relationships must take note. Great fan mama zimbi.
Thank u 4 enlighten us.
Yes this is true.
Thanks Akumaa, Iam guilty of some of these things and I am awfully sorry. May God forgive me.
Thanks very much cos i decided to quit with my guy,but thks for alerting my guy from his mistakes,we have learnt alot.
1OX FOR THIS FELA
MEDAAAAAASE………………………
It is true women need to feel needed and important after lovemaking. Men should take their time during this time so the woman can also enjoy and be happy.
ma lady wants it fastest to love making, how abt dat?
naa tru ooo maamazy.n cant even complain.mostl b’cos of de rush he’s always lubricatn . i do sufa acut UTI after every meetn. akuma am barly 2yrs into marriag n am almost givn up cop of som of dis.
this is rearly amazing. thanx 4 this tips.
sure al what i read is sure 4 real bt ma sexual healing b 2 much 2 do most thinx.
Thank u mamazimbi for given we men what to make our women appreciate us and come again when we haven’t even call .
Wow Mama,
That is a great advice for all men, but why will our women not want as to know all this? Realy why keep such importand clue from the one you love should we not help each other to know each other bettter for our own good
My woman kept a secret like such like kissing while having sex for the pass 5 years. l had to find this myself and this made our sexual life more pleasant then ever.
Medaase Mr Obeng Sweden
All the points are true but i think the last point painted out that we thank after having sex.I am convience in other website that we should not thank after having sex with her.She may feels that you are interested for satisfying your feeling from her and not that you lovn her.She may feels worry because both of us agree and enjoy it without any demand.What about that?
mama zimbi am prosper from Akosombo i want to ask you some question how many days dose it take a woman to get pregnant i have some girl we live not even a month i left her and went to my home town by the time i came back she told me that she is pregnant for me i spent only 3days there but the timei told some one to be wachting her for me and the person told mew that she saw her with another man but i ask her she said no what should i do now Akumaa i told the them that i am not responsible for the pregnant
Mama, I am Sam, your advise is true, but why the woman will not tell u her feelings since she loves u. She has to direct u where and how to touch her.
my girl dont want me any more again
my girl does nt want me any more again
comments from ur funs are welcome