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If you are slee…

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If you are sleeping on his bed now and reading this post, and waiting for him to test, taste and toast you as usual, to prove whether your vagina can determine how good or bad you can be as a wife in future, know that your decision is risky and dangerous. Have you noticed that he only say ‘I Love You’ to you when he only needs sex or having sex with you?

Close those beautiful thighs, my dear. Get up, wear your dress and get back home or to your hostel. You are not for free. Keep what is left for the right man and time to honour you before your parents and friends. Even goods need a waybill. Dignity and Pride is all we’ve got as women. Always remember, no marriage no sex…medaase…

When I wanted to use condom she said no she is in her free period

Hello Mama Zimbi, my name is Daniel. I have dis gal dat i met and we fell in love..we use to call each other but she told me she wants to meet me so we meet at my friends house. My friend gave me a room to take her too. And i had sex with her. When I wanted to use condom she said no she is in her free period, so I had sex with her which my first time of having sex. After some days she called me to say she is not having her period.
I was then in school and was so disturbed i told her to abort it but she refused because she was scared. My family got to hear about it and her family also knew. I was so ashamed of my self because my family did not expert that from me .Now she has given birth she is still calling me that lets have sex again which she sometimes annoys me most because most of my friends now know i have a baby and i sometimes feel bad about that as a 20yrs guy and a 17yrs old gal. Should i still accept her and love her so we can be together or forget about her and move on..please mama what should i do now..

Knowledge is the Power behind Marriage

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The husband has one clear and unavoidable primary obligation: to provide his wife with the necessities of life. However, there are some basic characteristics and facts that every effective and efficient husband must know and possess.

One of the greatest differentials between successful and unsuccessful marriages is the amount of adequate knowledge that the husband possess. Some people would think that money would be the most important factor for the success of marriages, but with my over 10 years of teaching on the subjects of sex and marriage, I have come to know the truth that having money alone does not make marriages successful.

Disaster and misunderstanding strikes in marriages when husbands run the marriage life on limited knowledge. Not understanding the possible obstacles and dangers facing the marriage due to ignorance. Besides, the Holy Scriptures says lack of knowledge makes every establishment like the marriage institution perishes, and also instructs husband to have knowledge and understanding when dealing with their wives.

‘…Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.’ (1 Peter 3:7)

Husbands are not wise when they succumb to the casual and common way of joking about how difficult it is to ‘understanding females.’ Any human being (male or female) is complex in personality and behaviour. So no one is easy to understand. The Bible does not say it will be easy to understand a marriage partner, but specifically commands a husband to have an extensive, practical knowledge of his wife and her ways, and to live with her in light of that knowledge.

It is important for every husband to make sure that he gets enough information to carry out the tasks that he desires to make the marriage successful. Although, our generation is a generation of abundance knowledge, there seems to be inequalities between husbands when it comes to getting good results from the information that they acquire to build their marriages. This seems to be because, many husbands do not know that they need more than just the mere acquisition of knowledge, they need adequate knowledge. For example;

In authority wise, the husband is the first among equals in every marriage. The power of the husband evolves from their wives. Without their wives, they are no husbands. Children do not make husbands, but wives do.

The above statement can only be understood and comprehended by husbands who are in tune with adequate knowledge of the times. It is only through knowledge that a married man will understand his new duties, responsibilities and function as a husband.

A husband may be able to acquire adequate knowledge from several sources like;

©      Books and magazines

©      His own experience and that of others

©      Counsellors

©      Marriage seminars

©      Music, movies, sports, games and paintings

©      Internet

©      Television and radio talk shows.

Knowledge is indeed power. Without knowledge, marriages will always be unsuccessful. Knowledge feeds our desires with an awareness of alternative choices. Husbands with adequate information on how the 21st centaury marriage works are able to gain advantages in life that the ignorant often miss out.

Great opportunities that can heal and advance our marriages do come knocking on our doors often, but when a husband lacks certain information, the marriage relationship misses the chance to seize these new opportunities forever.